If you think I’m going to discuss about the famous TV series ‘Friends’, you’re wrong. I want to share my thoughts on friends here. I’m also putting high stakes here as they might read this, too. But, I don’t care, really. So, if you’re coincidentally one of my friends, well, .. just so you know.
So, where do I start? Mm.. let’s defin the word ‘friends’. I copied and pasted here, the definition of friend from Oxford Dictionary. It says:
friend
· n.
1 a person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations. Ø used in polite address to an acquaintance or stranger.
Thereby, friends don’t recognize sex. You can make friends with women as well as men, your own gender. I also believe that friends, close friends, to be exact, should tell everything. Well, not everything if your eyes grow wild upon hearing it. I mean, what are friends for if you cannot tell how you feel, how you’ve been, what made you upset and so on?
Let’s say you have a friend at the office. Let’s say you and your friend agreed to have lunch on the next day. And when the day comes, at lunch time, your friend is already left you at the office. And you’re still waiting words from your friend. Then, your friend phones you to your mobile phone asks you to go out for lunch with your friend. Your friend adds that there are several people with your friend already. I’d say this friend already loses 1 point from me. I mean, you have an appointment, but he/she just drops it like that.
Hold on, there’s more. Not enough calling you asking you to go out with this friend and knowing that there are several people to go with this friend already, and knowing that taxi won’t be able to accommodate all of us, this friend asks you to bring your car so that all of us can go. Do you understand the situation here? It’s like you are being used because you have a car. Your friend remembers you on the way to lunch because your friend has difficulties in finding taxi. I’m hurt actually, when I this happened to me. What did I do wrong? Haven’t I been caring for this friend?
I don’t know. May be I’m too much on this. This friend is actually still good to me. This friend doesn’t understand what this friend has done wrong to me. And, I’m not willing to talk about my emotion to anyone. You see, there are only 2 persons I can trust to talk about this thing: the first person is me and the other is nobody.
So, now that you have read this, and you feel that you have done the above mentioned thing. Don’t sweat about it. You’re still my friend. Though, I may not be the same friend you used to know. I am sorry. I am not such a good friend, after all.