Women’s Rights: How to Draw the Line
This is rather sensitive case, I know. But looking at the situation in the country, I’d say things are not going so good. There is this law on porns which rule the way women how to dress and other thing which are related to porns. At one side, the women are protesting this draft regulation. They say that it is ridiculuous for the government to rule how a woman should dress. On the other side, there are people who agree to such regulations. They say porn is like a sale at the mall here. You can find FHM, Playboy, etc. almost like you want to find public toilet: it’s there and everybody knows where it is, yet no one else needs to know what happens inside.
What disappointed me was these women have been propagated by the media. The media says that the porn regulations would rule the traditional customs, which, almost all of them show parts of women’s body. This is not true, actually. The regulation acknowledges the variety of the nation’s culture. It won’t ever ban such custom. It would be ridiculuous. Just as ridiculous as these women who are protesting such regulation.
They say they have the right to their own body. Of course. Well, we have the right to look at whatever we would like to see, right? So, women should not protest if they are wearing mini skirt and tank top and many craving-for-more eyes undress (so to say) them. At one side, we have to behave, while on the other side they are wearing something that could arouse men. It’s not fair, really.
How to draw what is porn and what is not? Is that a trick question? Man who says that he is not aroused by looking at a pair of woman’s naked leg is prone to be, either lying or not paying attention; or, gay. Man who says that he is not interested in the cleavage of a woman shown behind her gown is prone to be, either lying or not paying attention; or gay.
Normal man likes b**bs. Normal man likes woman’s pair of naked legs. Normal man likes woman’s body. It comes naturally. There’s no arguing about it. But, why would the women say they have the right to their own body, and wear mini skirt and tank top? Some men would restrain themself from looking and enjoying women’s body because the religion says so. Some would go too far and forget about what the religion says and… well.. disaster.
Let me give you a fictious story. I got this from a friend.
There was this drop dead beautiful girl, wearing mini skirt and tank top. She walked into a drugstore. While she was at the counter, a man was watching her, from head to toe. He looked at her as if she were a piece of meat. He walked closer to the girl and asked, “How much is it for an hour?” The girl was shocked and angry to this question. “Who do you think I am? I am not a s**t! How dare you!” The girl scolded. “I am sorry, but you look like one.” The man defended. “How I dress is up to me. You shouldn’t look at all at me in the first place. It’s my right!” The girl scolded again. “Yeah, well, it’s my right too to look at whatever I want. And it’s my right too to think whoever person as whatever.” The story hangs there.
Women scream outloud about the human rights. But, do they know anything about it? Do they know that one’s right is not limitless. It is limited by other’s right. The others’ right are to be free from terror. And I’d say porn is terror. It can come to your home, under your bed, or in your cubicle.
Women’s right? I agree with that. I should also propose death penalty to rapist. There should be zero tolerant over men who conduct such crime. On the other hand, women must also help themselves and wear something proper. Remember, man will always like woman. It is by nature.
